For ex-members of cults, understanding the mind control techniques used to recruit them and keep them in the group is an important part of their recuperation.
Remember people do not deliberately join cults. They are recruited!
Many people believe that cults use harassment and arguments to pressure people into joining. Nothing could be further from the truth. The mind control techniques used by cults nowadays have evolved and frequently soft talk, charm and appealing topics are used to flatter, entice and even seduce people into making commitments.
But the combination of mind control techniques means that the seduction can cause bonds and commitments that are even more powerful than normal relationships.
Ok, so let's say the person agrees to go to a weekend course. Let's discuss the mind control techniques they can expect to encounter…
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College Friend Was A
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NASA Engineer Sociopath
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The "Simple Sweet Nurse" Who I Will Always Be Afraid Of PART 2.
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The "Simple Sweet Nurse" Who I Will Always Be Afraid Of.
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i recognized her as a psychopath
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Someone Who I Thought Was A Friend
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My son was dating a young girl. The relationship was troubled. He worked with a woman who made friends with him. He admired the friend. She told him …
How someone nearly began to control every single aspect of my life.
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Been Conned All Of My Life - Started In Childhood...
Where do I start? Being raised in a home where my dad was a 20 year man in the army. After divorcing my mom and marrying a psychopath (my opinion) everything …
Evil In Many Ways
This woman knows me and I know her. She has been doing the most unthinkable things you can imagine. Harasses through the internet, she has people stalking …
She seemed so innocent, and normal..
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Sociopathic Mother-in-Law
It was clear to me upon reading it, that my abusive ex's mother had written the statement against me that was entered into family court records. Though …
Elrich - Psychopathic girlfriend
I was attracted very much by this young women who used sex to get me excited then afterwards she expected money, any where's from 40 up to 60 dollars. …
My Mother the Sociopath
For years I wondered what was wrong with my Mother. As a little girl I thought, "Why can't she love me?"
My parents also exposed us to a cult.
…
My mother
She would be a devil, when our father wasn't at home. When he was present, she played the role of a 'perfect mother,' so our father wouldn't believe us …
A Sense of Belonging (The Greatest)
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Mobbed by female sociopaths at work
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How I Scared A Psychopath
We were a group of 8 people, and I happened to sit next to the guy whom I figured out was a psychopath. He is slightly older than me, and expected in general …
Jealous Scorned Entity
Yes, indeed... there are evil people in this world...
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The Lure Of Christian Unions (cu)
I joined cu at age of 14. Its a long story... very long.
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how i was conned by a psychopath
He used insults about my looks, saying the same thing each week. It was like groundhog day.
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Making Your Own Decisions - Not!
After reading some things here something clicked with me about how a cult leader tricked me into thinking I was making my own decisions. And then how he …
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You have probably noticed that I am moving the whole Mind Control section to a new site. Please excuse any inconvenience. I expect to have made the whole move in the next few days.
This is the new site www.pschobegone.com. Feel free to come and visit. Any suggestions will be gratefully received!